The Israeli mom who’s a special-needs inventor

Debby Elnatan invented Upsee for her son with CP, launched a program for families of special-needs kids, and harmonizes all her activities with music. BY Abigail Klein Leichman

Debby and Zohar Elnatan with their sons, from left, Rotem, Inbar and Shachar. Photo by Tzvika Portnoy

Debby and Zohar Elnatan with their sons, from left, Rotem, Inbar and Shachar. Photo by Tzvika Portnoy


A guitar and a contrabass are the first things you see when you walk into the Jerusalem home of Debby and Zohar Elnatan. You also notice the adaptive equipment for 19-year-old Rotem, who has cerebral palsy.

Those two elements – music and a child with special needs – are dominant threads in the tapestry of the five Elnatans’ lives.

When ISRAEL21c came to visit, Debby Elnatan was still the center of global media attention following the April 7 launch of the Firefly Upsee (, a novel co-walking harness based on a contraption she invented when Rotem was two years old.

“So many orders – thousands — came in over the first few days, that the website crashed,” she says. “Parents all over the world are putting up videos on Facebook showing them walking or dancing with their kids for the first time. Some show siblings hugging for the first time. Parents write to me about their Upsee before they even take the price tag off. It’s just incredible how virally this spread; within one week it was in China, Bosnia, Iran, South America, Japan – the four corners of the earth.”

CNN Turkey and a Brazilian television crew interviewed her, as well as an Italian radio station after a piece they did on the Upsee got 4.5 million hits.

A fiddler of music and tools

Elnatan, 56, was born in Syracuse, New York, and moved to Israel in 1983. She’s a lifelong music lover. “I’m a fiddler, and I have a country band called Habandanot [the Bandanas]. We do Wild West events all over Israel.”

Her father taught her to work with tools, a skill that came in handy when she became the parent of a child with CP.

If I saw something Rotem needed, I would build a prototype,” she says.

“Since he was one year old I’ve designed crawling, seating, standing and walking equipment refined through trial and error. I have one patent and another patent application pending, and a lot of products to get into the market. I hope all my inventions will be commercialized, because I have a lot to offer and I want to give other families the advantages I had.”

She is adamant that her inventions be sold online to remain affordable. The Irish company Leckey created a retail website for the Firefly Upsee and another product, after refining its design and testing it extensively throughout the UK.

Towards a whole family

Each of Elnatan’s items is designed to leave the parent’s hands free and give therapeutic benefits while allowing the child to participate in family activities.

“Having a child with special needs can bring great stress to a family and all the relationships in it,” Elnatan tells ISRAEL21c. “There is a danger of investing too many resources in the child with special needs at the expense of the health of the family.”

Cap 2: The family that plays together stays together. Photo by Tzvika Portnoy

Cap 2: The family that plays together stays together. Photo by Tzvika Portnoy

Rotem’s older brother, Shachar, is a professional jazz guitarist, while 12-year-old Inbar is the one who plays the guitar and contrabass. Zohar is a guitarist and music teacher. Rotem, an aspiring DJ, entertained at a Passover party at Ilanot, his special school in Jerusalem. His mom lent some help. “We do what he can’t and he does the rest, and feels great about it,” she says.

Before Rotem was born, Debby and Zohar started an evening music group through the Shekel Association, which provides community services for people with special needs with the support of JDC Israel, the Ministry of Social Affairs, the Jerusalem municipality and other agencies. This remains a weekly commitment.

“We perform with our drumming group around the country at regular schools as a way of introducing people who have special needs in a fun environment,” she explains. “The group includes young adults with a variety of special needs, who all like music and have good rhythm.”

Broken-child syndrome

About 12 years ago, Elnatan conceived of a program with Miri Weiss, another mother of a special-needs child, to counter what they term “the broken child syndrome.”

“If you break an arm it does heal, but children with a chronic disease or impairments may never become like a typical child,” she explains. “If you always see your child as broken and needing to be fixed, it will cause an imbalance in your family.”

After 11 years of seeking a sponsor and sitting in board meetings, the Shemesh (Full Family Rehabilitation) pilot program was born to help restore family balance through play and leisure, family participation, sibling togetherness, parenting, and learning how to ask for help. Parents of older children with special needs are trained to accompany families with younger children with special needs.

JDC Israel developed the program and sought governmental funding partners. A three-year pilot of Shemesh is now wrapping up in communities including Ashkelon, Rosh Ha’ayin, Baqa al-Gharbiyye and Rehovot.

“We had to get the government to understand that family is the main influence and mover behind the quality of life of the child, and they need to help the entire family,” says Elnatan.

Play builds special-needs children’s confidence and personality, she says. “The best advice I got was from [Israeli clinical psychologist] Aliza Vig, who recommends parents find what brings a spark to their child’s eye and follow that lead.” She was also advised to favor activities that the parent enjoys as much as the child.

The same goes for siblings. Inbar tells ISRAEL21c that he and Rotem play Wii and card games, bake cookies and prepare salads together. “Maybe it’s because he was in the Upsee [when he was younger] and could stand and do things with his hands,” the preteen observes.

Mom Of Disabled Son Creates Harness That Allows Him And Other Children To Walk For The First Time

By NoCamels Team

Debby Elnatan is not your typical mother.

When told her son had cerebral palsy and would be confined to a wheelchair for the rest of his life, this Israeli mom decided she would spend years building a device that would allow him to stand on his legs and walk, just like everyone else.

In a heart-wrenching stroke of genius, Debby created a harness which allows her and her son Rotem to walk in unison, leaving his hands free to engage in other activities.

Now her invention has been launched onto the worldwide market.“When my son was two years old, I was told by medical professionals that he doesn’t know what his legs are and has no consciousness of them”, Elnatan, a music therapist told the daily Mail.

Out of the “pain and desperation” with her son’s condition she created the Firefly Upsee Harness, a harness which allows handicapped children to stand and move together with a supporting adult.

13 Mom Of Disabled Son Creates Harness That Allows Him And Other Children To Walk For The First Time

Elnatan and the Upsee

The special harness is fastened on to the guiding adult at the waist, enabling them to pull the child up to a standing position using another harness attached to the child’s shoulders and legs.

Then, the child and adult fasten the shoe bindings which help the two to take steps in unison. Currently, the product’s design suits one leading adult and a 3-8 year-old handicapped child, but due to large demand, the product may be expanded for use by slightly older handicapped individuals.

A UK parent sees her son Jack walk for the first time

Debby’s innovative thinking has already paid off for nearly 20 families around the world whose children suffer from conditions limiting or inhibiting the freedom of movement.

Maura McCrystal, mother of five-year-old Jack, from Northern Ireland, has been one of the first parents to use the product.

She told the Daily Mail: “Last Sunday was a significant one for us as a family as it was the first time our son Jack was able to play football in the back garden with his dad, his brothers and our little dog Milly.

“To see Jack playing like any other five-year-old boy made me very emotional. Jack and his brothers so enjoyed it.”

Available soon around the world

After a global search for a company to mass-produce her “Upsee”, the Israeli mother chose Northern Ireland-based manufacturer Leckey, which has a long track record in making equipment for children with special needs.

The harness will cost around $540, plus shipping, which makes it an affordable option for parents, who like Debby, want to give their children the chance to walk for the very first time.